The School of Self Love



Be the love you want to receive

A free 3 day event that will show you how to take your relationship with you to the next level so that you feel deserving of next level love.

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The School of Self Love



Be the love you want to receive

A free 3 day event that will show you how to take your relationship with you to the next level so that you feel deserving of next level love.

Next date TBA > Please join the waitlist by clicking the button below


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You simply cannot enjoy a relationship with someone else until you enjoy your relationship with yourself.

- Your Host, Katie Phillips

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This is what's sabotaging your ability to have an empowered relationship.

How many can you tick?


  • Incessant monkey mind
  • Irritated or resentful
  • Judgement of self / others
  • Self loathing
  • Victim mentality
  • Addiction to work or being busy
  • Worry or overwhelm


  • Can't be vulnerable
  • Reactive emotional outbursts
  • Not feeling enough
  • Low self worth
  • People pleasing
  • Unappreciated
  • Can't say what you think or feel
  • Anxiety


  • Exhaustion
  • Feeling undesirable
  • Self criticism
  • Lack of self care
  • Can't ask for what you need
  • Scared of intimacy
  • Illness
  • Poor diet
  • No physical routine


  • Lack of purpose
  • Depleted & empty
  • Disconnected from self
  • Disconnected from Source / God / Universe
  • Lack of 'joie de vie'
  • No spiritual practices
  • No daily routine

Let me show you how to create an empowered relationship with yourself so that you feel :

  • Loveable & open hearted
  • Valuable & worthy
  • Abundant & purposeful
  • Joyful & vibrant
  • Able to speak your truth
  • Connected & courageously vulnerable
  • Aligned with your values
  • Peaceful & safe
  • Confident & magnetic
  • Vital & energised
  • Grounded & calm
  • More than enough!

A fabulous relationship is available to you and it starts with you.

How you relate to yourself on a daily basis has a massive impact on how you relate to others and how they can relate to you.

Over 3 days I will show you the keys to building self worth, self trust & self confidence so that you can receive the love you deserve.

Join me every evening at 7pm on your social media platform of choice (Facebook / Linked In / YouTube) as I share how you can reconnect with you and learn how to be the love you want to receive. 

It's easy when you know how. Let me show you the way.

Day 1

Know Yourself

  • Discover how what you don't own, owns you. Learn a powerful framework for healing your past to build Self Worth which is crucial for a healthy relationship.

  • Playbook
  • Q&A
  • Live teaching @ 7pm
  • Catch-up page

Day 2

Love Yourself

  • Discover what is specifically sabotaging your relationships & learn a healing strategy that's key to your Self Confidence and a powerful relationship.

  • Playbook
  • Q&A
  • Live teaching @ 7pm
  • Catch-up page

Day 3

Create Yourself

  • Discover where your energy is out of alignment & learn how to achieve a magnetic flow state to build Self Trust and an empowered relationship.

  • Playbook
  • Q&A
  • Live teaching @ 7pm
  • Catch-up page

"I see my worth more and more every day and I feel so much more comfortable in receiving love - mentally, physically and emotionally."

- Izi (UK)

"Katie was able to see things in me I wasn’t able to see. She created a safe space for me to let down the barriers and explore everything it is to be authentically me!"

- Dayna (USA)

" I am genuinely changed. I feel so happy. I'm taking action towards my dreams and I can't believe how quickly everything is happening for me! "

- Sharon (UK)

Meet Your Host, Katie

My mission is to inspire and motivate you to live a life that feels authentic, empowered, valuable and full of love.

I am a master transformational coach, empowered feminine / masculine energy guide, midlife love / dating / relationship mentor, acclaimed author & women's empowerment speaker.

As is the case for so many who teach, write and coach in the personal transformation space, I had to learn what I now am able to share. You could say I’ve been there and got the ripped, sweat and mascara stained t-shirt to prove it!

I’m a 48 yr old Sydney Northern Beaches Gal who now resides in the UK’s Sussex Countryside with my husband and our children.

I had a rather blessed upbringing - swimming in the surf all Summer and horse-riding in the outback each Winter. My parents imparted incredibly powerful seeds of wisdom in my formative years. Dad told me I was “I can do anything, Katie” and I learned to live by the motto, ‘Dare Mighty Things’ - taken from the Theodore Roosevelt quote which Dad had blue-tacked to his office wall. Mum taught me to ‘Do Unto Others’, to be kind to myself and to love and respect my body.

It was text-book masculine / feminine approaches to life which have and continue to serve me well.

I also learned a lot that would become my greatest opportunities for healing and growth. My parents divorce and my Mum’s suicide was a slap around the face which I wasn’t at all prepared for - my seemingly perfect family life quickly unraveled to reveal co-dependancy, depression, anxiety, alcoholism and more which had been lurking just beneath the pretty facade for many years. What we resist, persists (and usually bites us on the arse!) - one day, inevitably, what gets swept under the rug eventually becomes the catalyst that has that very rug pulled from beneath our feet.

I wonder if you can relate on any level?

And so my journey home to me began, starting with a decade living as a victim and allowing myself to feel like life was happening to me rather than for me because what we don’t own, owns us. That was followed by 8 years as a single parent, believing that a healthy relationship was not meant for me.

I was disempowered by perfectionism, keeping up appearances, co-dependancy, grief, addiction to external approval, a sense of not belonging, emotional roller-coasting and mental self-sabotage. My body reflected my emotional and mental ill-health with chronic fatigue, cystic acne, recurrent UTI’s and low immunity. My relationships reflected an addiction to drama and an inability to create a sense of significance, worthiness and lovability from within. My career reflected a good girl who would work hard to prove her worth.

From the outside looking in however it appeared as if I was living a great life. And I was. “I can do anything, Katie” lived a big, bold and adventurous life. I had a fabulous corporate career spanning Advertising, PR and Events Management, partied the socks off my twenties, climbed mountains, sailed seas, back-packed several continents and globe-trotted glamorously.

In my mid-thirties life invited me to look at the gaping chasm between the life I lived and how I truly felt. It was time to integrate these two worlds which required a profound healing journey that had me dive into my pain in a way that felt unsurvivable except that I emerged utterly transformed with an insatiable appetite to continue to know and love myself more and more and more.

I learned how to feel empowered by mastering my mind and my emotions. I learned how to unleash my divinely wild feminine while feeling utterly safe and supported by my inner masculine. I learned compassion, forgiveness and love for myself and others at a level I never dreamed possible. I found my authentic voice and learned ‘my way’ of being in business so that my success is holistic and aligned with my values. Best of all, as a result of all this, I have a marriage I am proud of and the people I love and care for most now get the best of me. It’s a win:win.

As my inner world healed, my outer world reflected that and so my relationships have steadily improved and become more empowered year on year.

I am committed to my personal growth and evolution. Every new desire I have usually requires me to up-level in some way and that usually requires a degree of healing and transformation. I am committed daily to moving from fear to love with the intention of living my truth. I’m not a fan of the word ‘journey’ however haven’t yet found a word that so aptly describes the path of living consciously. The day I chose to own myself - warts ’n all - was the day my journey began and there’s no end to this wild ride.

It is my honour to support you in becoming the woman you came here to be. To live the life you were born for. To have the impact you were meant to have. To love and be loved the way that you deserve.

Will you join our movement of loved up women who are up-levelling themselves, their relationships & the world?

Katie xx

"I removed blocks, healed my heart and now have clarity in what I desire. I truly believe I am worthy of a healthy and committed relationship which I didn't dream possible!"

- Clare (Australia)

"My innermost fears, insecurities and wounds felt safe enough to crawl out of their hiding places, come into the open, and be healed."

- Mel (Hong Kong)

"I now have way better boundaries, no more settling in my love or professional life and a sense of freedom that I hadn’t felt before.  Katie is THE premiere expert in self love."

- Rachel (Los Angeles)

"I hadn't been able to find and keep the love and support of a man in my life and blamed myself. Unpicking my past, identifying, releasing and changing destructive belief systems has given me such a sense of clarity and I'm looking forward, excited and prepared for the next chapter! Working with Katie has been enlightening!"

- Vanessa (UK)

"As a result of working with Katie, I called in love! We have something very special that we both cherish."

- Sonia (USA)

"The self love work I did with Katie enabled me to call in my man. I am now living with my boyfriend and we are living our shared vision!"

- Charlie (UK)